This was wonderful news. I read a transcript of what happened in the courtroom and the judge seemed very clear. I was glad to see this. Many issues were considered, and the next hearing is on September 29. Please keep her on your long-term prayer list, if you feel so inspired. Possibly this case will drag on until she is age 18 (next summer) and then she is free.
The judge is pushing for mediation (to be held in Florida):
The parents’ lawyer says that mediation will be useless. “I’m trying to help the court” by saying this, he says. The judge says that he doesn’t see how he is helping the court by complaining that mediation won’t work. They agree to set a date for mediation.
Rifqa stands firmly behind her story, and does not alter it one bit. She says she wants her story known, to help other Muslim girls who may be facing fear and intimidation, saying, “This case is not about me, but about thousands of girls around the world like me.”
At one point she burst into tears when her parent’s lawyer wanted the judge to rule that she could not see her new Christian friends in Florida, especially the 3 young adult children of the family that first took her in when she ran away from Ohio to Florida. The judge overruled that idea, thankfully. (She needs all the friends she can get.)
Anyway – it is a painful story – yet her courage and strong faith make it a very inspiring one. May the Light prevail.
Pray for the forces of Light to prevail for this girl. I believe this is one of the most important religious freedom cases in our time. This is not only about one girl, Rifqa Bary, but about all Muslim girls, especially those here in the west. It is also about cherishing our most sacred right and freedom: the freedom of each individual soul for life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.
May God be with her, and may God bless and guide the judge; and may her lawyer be clear and strong in the court room on September 3. May she be allowed to say in Florida, safe and protected.
I love this picture because of the look on her face, and knowing she is doing what she can to keep God’s presence in her heart and mind in the midst of this. Visualize the Light of God, Christ, and the Masters, with her and all around her now, and in the courtroom:
Rifqa Bary reads her Bible in courtroom of Judge Daniel Dawson, Aug. 21, 2009
Her lawyer, John Stemburger, said:
“…Rifqa is a remarkable young lady, she is petite in stature, but she is robust and big in heart, and even while she has great moments of fear and apprehension, she also has great hope and trust and joy. Her faith is very, very real, much more than most of ours, and that’s a great source of hope and comfort to her.”
…The United Nations has reported that there are over 5000 honor killings or apostate killings a year…And we believe that it’s in her best interests, clearly to retain her stable placement here in Florida and to not have her return to Ohio…
In praying about this over the last few weeks, I do get the feeling that her parents “love” her – and yet something else can supersede that love. In #19-20, below, we see the pressure that her father was getting from the Noor Center, and pushed him to the tipping point…
Here are details of the case…Excerpt from her affidavit (pdf) submitted for the September 3rd hearing:
…My father was very intent on making sure that his children, and especially me, were raised deeply in the faith of ‘Original Islam’ which was taught at the Noor Center.…
18. In June of 2009 my father confronted me with several questions about whether I had become a Christian, whether I was baptized, if I was going to church. Out of fear I remained silent;
19. Then my father told me that he received numerous emails and phone calls from the leaders of the Noor Center community who informed him that he needed to deal with this matter immediately;
20. In a fit of anger that I had never seen before in my life, he picked up my lap top, waived it over my head as if to strike me with it and said “if you have this Jesus in your heart, you are dead to me! You are no longer my daughter.” I continued to remain silent and then he said to me even more angry then before, I will kill you! Tell me the truth!”
21. On July 17, 2009, my mother confronted me about another Christian book she discovered that I hid in my bedroom. She had just spoken with my father was on the phone who was out of town. She was very upset, in tears, and almost grieving and told me I was going to have to be sent back to Sri Lanka to be dealt with.
FURTHER AFFIANT SAYETH NOT Fathima Rifqa Bary
Her lawyer: John Stemburger – at a press conference on this case:
“…The primary issue in this case, is the clear and present danger that is presented by the Noor Center Mosque, and its ties to terrorist activity (pdf), and…the Bary parents’ devotion to, and relationship with, and regular weekly participation in the Noor Center…
…Let me say in closing, that this is not a case against Islam…The vast majority of Muslims in this country are peaceful, they’re law abiding citizens and they should be protected by the Constitution, embraced and really welcomed as contributors to the great diversity that makes up what America is…
For more general information, read this excerpt of an editorial from Canada, where they have had several honor killings this summer.
Excerpt: “…An honour killing is part of an organized effort to subjugate women to a specific and oppressive view of society. Although the total number of honour killings in Canada is still relatively small, probably less than 50 in total to date, the impact on the community as a whole is huge. When compared to a worldwide figure of perhaps 5,000 honour killings a year the implied threat is heightened.
But numbers alone do not tell the story. Even at its height, the number of lynchings in the American South was fairly small (probably less than 100 a year) but the intimidation huge. Southern blacks knew the danger of speaking up for their rights; with honour killings, women can see the risk of behaving outside their place…Terrorism is violence designed to intimidate for an ideological purpose. That’s what an honour killing is — violence intended to subjugate and intimidate women…”
Well – there is much more – but I tried to sift it down to the things that I thought would be helpful in prayer. God bless you for all of your prayers! It is a force of Light in this world.
I’ve had time to reflect more on this prayer request. I remain deeply moved by the story, and I am so grateful for this answered prayer, which some have referred to as modern day David and Goliath story. It is very important to feel gratitude when prayers are answered. It is a form of God’s presence in this world.
This was an important first step, and many wheels are in motion now to help her in the court. Her next hearing is on September 3, and prayers would be very good for that.
“I’ve been a Christian for 4 years of my life. I love my parents but I am in fear of my life because of the past abuse. I assure your honor, Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior” Rifqa Bary, age 17, courtroom statement (excerpt)
Her court room scene reminded me a bit of St. Francis declaring to the ecclesiastical court, “I will no longer say, ‘My father, Pietro Bernadone’, but, ‘Our Father, which art in heaven…’”
It is important to pray to support her right for religious freedom and safety. Simultaneously, we must remain mindful that those who are in error, are still God’s children, as well, and to keep our hearts immersed in God’s love.
In my years in the prayer ministry, I have sometimes prayed for some very difficult situations, such as war torn areas, and for the soul of a murdered girl, and much more. It is almost automatic in such cases to want to pick sides, and say one is the bad guy. Of course, there are bad actions and motives, and these bring pain and misery to the victims, and also to the perpetrator, sooner or later. For karma is exact, and we are all connected.
It is important to pray for the vulnerable party, while being careful to “judge not” the erring party. We can assess them as “the erring party” – but not condemn them as such in our hearts, for all are God’s children – even those in error. I’m am not saying this to excuse them from their bad karma, but simply to say that we are not the ones to stand in judgment. For if our hearts close up in harsh judgment, we block the flow of grace within us, and a side effect is that we will burn out, and not be able to pray as effectively about the bigger issues.
These are my lessons and insights drawn from prayer experience. Others, however, will have the karma to fight evil more outwardly and directly. Thank God for that. We need any and all forces for the Light. Even so – in any form of service to spreading Light, they will be more effective if their hearts can remain as clear as possible.
All – ultimately – are seeking happiness, or at least the avoidance of pain. Even honor killing, despicable though it is, can be seen in that light. It comes from a very strong and harsh world view that teaches certain things must be nipped in the bud, or else the whole culture goes down. It doesn’t really matter why (in terms of prayer). What does matter is that we strive to keep our own hearts free from hateful polarization. Any person, once touched by God’s grace, can change in a heartbeat. We never know when that moment will come, but painful events often bring the most growth. It may seem unlikely, but it keeps our hearts open to remember the possibility is there.
However, we need to keep our eyes wide open. We can and should assess the situation, and pray for the one most vulnerable, and in immediate need of help. In this case, I still say it is the daughter, Rifqa Bary, though some others in the media seem to say it is the maligned family and Muslim religion. Having reviewed a lot of information that has become public since I saw that first video, I firmly believe in the genuineness of her plight and need.
Paramhansa Yogananda says that healing depends on the power of the healer, and the receptivity of the patient. Rifqa has shown her receptivity to God’s grace in many ways. Some may argue that we should pray to change the causative factors that exist in her family, or her former religion, but again, the above statement would guide us in this: “the power of the healer (do you have that much power?) and the receptivity of the patient”- (do they look all that receptive right now?).
However, even as we pray for Rifqa Bary, some of the prayer glow, so to speak, may also change those who may seek to harm her. I wouldn’t count on it as a the main method of safety for her (that would be naive) but I am saying it could be one side-effect of the prayers for her. It remains to be seen.
Here’s a healing testimonial from many years ago:
A woman asked us for prayers because a man had been stalking her and making harassing phone calls. She did not know his name. We only had her name, so we put her on the prayer list, asking for her to be protected.
About a month later I got a letter from her in which she said that after several weeks, the man called her and said, “I am the one who has been stalking you and calling you, and I want to let you know I won’t be doing that anymore.”
It felt as though the prayerful light within and around her magnetized goodness to come to her, and in that way changed him. I also see this in Rifqa’s case. The prayers for her magnetized goodness toward her, in the form of the Governor of Florida and the judge, and many people who sympathize with her plight.
Many times when praying for people in troubling circumstances, I will feel a blessing or grace in answer to that prayer – and then I will simply watch (as I continue to pray each day) and see how the positive force manifests itself. (“Manifest thy healing presence….) This will sometimes then guide me in my prayers, as well, for the area of receptivity has been made more apparent.
So, even though I don’t personally feel inspired, or able, to pray effectively to change the big causative factors in Rifqa’ case, I do recognize that those factors are ultimately mutable, for all souls are part of God.
I offer this video poem below, which seems very fitting for this prayer update on Rifqa. It includes wonderful inspiration on each soul’s need and right to be free in God, and also encourages us to see God in all, even in our “error-intoxicated” brothers.
May all souls be free.
PRAYER-DEMAND:
ASKING GOD TO BE THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF THE WORLD by Paramhansa Yogananda
Voice: Swami Kriyananda
Thank you all for your prayers. It is truly God’s grace that this went so well today. Many were saying it couldn’t/wouldn’t happen this way. But things change, because prayer is a force of Light, as are actions of care and mercy for the vulnerable.
John Stemberg, an attorney representing the teen, said, “What occurred today was an amazing victory for Rifqa and an amazing victory for religious liberty and freedom in America.
Please continue your prayers, but know that this was a very important hurdle today. Such things have momentum, and it feels that the dark force behind this has been given notice, similarly to how Jesus said, commandingly, “Get thee behind me, satan!”
No matter how you slice it – “honor killing” (or the threat or implication thereof) of an innocent young girl for any reason, and especially because she loves God in her own chosen way, is a form of the greatest darkness.
Legal proceedings:
Judge Dawson says “at first blush” it appears his court has jurisdiction in this custody matter, since no Ohio court has taken up the matter. The judge says he’s inclined to refer this matter to mediation and keep this matter in his court.
A representative from Florida Department of Children and Families has told the court that the Florida Department of Law Enforcement has agreed to investigate the matter, because DCF fears she is in danger.
A legal representative for Rifqa says since Ohio has no prior legal proceeding in this case, then Florida can claim jurisdiction. Staying in Florida, her legal team argues, would keep her safe. Judge Dawson said he has had no contact with Ohio courts, so he doesn’t know if Ohio wants jurisdiction in this case.
“Rifqa wants to be here,” said one of her lawyers.
He told he court the teen’s safety would be compromised back in Ohio, referring to some ‘terrorist activity’ in the region where she lived. He did not elaborate.
Judge Dawson asked if Rifqa is a legal immigrant. She was born in Sri Lanka. Her attorneys say they are trying to determine that and need the parents’ cooperation. Her father, Mohammed, said she arrived in the U.S. on a visa. Since she has turned 17, her legal status is in question.
update: A hearing is set for September 3rd at 2:30 p.m. A dependency petition will be argued at that time.
Rifqa in the court today:
Rafqa’s statement to the court: “I’ve been a christian for 4 years of my life. I love my parents but I am in fear of my life because of the past abuse. I assure your honor Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. I am a Christian, a believer.”
Also, Rifqa will spend some time with her younger brothers, but does not want to meet with her parents at this time.
Rifqa is staying in a foster home. Her foster parents are not willing to allow supervised visitation of Rifqa’s family or friends right now. The judge is recommending DCF take charge of the issue and hold these meetings in an outside location where it can be videotaped.
From Rifqa’s friends and teachers:
One of Rifqa’s out of state friends used to talk to Rifqa frequently on the phone. She said they had to use code words (that they had established earlier) when talking about Christianity so her parents would not know what she was saying on the phone.
A police officer involved in this case from Columbus, said that he had talked to 20 people, and almost all 20 said she was in fear for her life.
And one of Rifqa’s teachers said she knew Rifqa’s life was in danger, but became very frightened when told by the school to “stay out of this”…
Rifqa Bary
This e-mail form the Florida Governor’s office arrived later today, after the hearing:
Governor Crist today expressed his gratefulness to Circuit Judge Daniel Dawson for his decision to grant Fathima Rifqa Bary the right to remain in Florida. In this case, the first and only priority of Governor Crist’s administration is the safety and wellbeing of this child. The Governor also expressed gratitude for the good work of Department of Children and Families Secretary George Sheldon and his General Counsel, Rob Wheeler, for personally advocating the administration’s position by attending today’s hearing.
Please be assured Governor Crist will continue to fight to protect Ms.
Rifqa Bary’s safety and wellbeing as this case moves forward.
Today, August 21, is my own daughter, Krishnabai’s, birthday… I was with her this morning, and gave her some pretty gifts, fitting her lovely spirit. I also gave her a special paper on which to write a birthday wish, but in my heart, I was also praying very much for another girl, Rifqa Bary.
We are all connected, and all children are “our children” and this girl has captured my attention. Right from the start, I have felt grace when I have prayed for her, but I do not want let go before I know she is safe, and the aura of Light and Love is around her. I receive so many prayer requests, I am bound to gradually let this concern go – but not completely. When someone catches your prayerful heart, it is good to put a picture of that person on your altar, and send prayers now and then…ask Divine Mother to nudge you and guide you if she needs extra prayers.
I just received this e-mail letter from the Governor of Florida. (It felt like a special blessing to receive it today, on my daughter’s birthday.) It was sent to all those who contacted his office regarding the safety of Rifqa Bary. It bodes well for her court hearing today, at 3 PM Florida time. Keep praying.
Governor of Florida, Charlie Crist
Thank you for contacting Governor Charlie Crist and sharing your concerns about Ms. Fathima (Rifqa) Bary. The Governor asked that I respond on his behalf.
Governor Crist is committed to protecting Ms. Bary’s health, safety and
welfare. Governor Crist directed the Secretary of the Department of Children and Families, George Sheldon, to petition the court for placement in shelter and custody under the Florida Department of Children and Family Services (Department). As a result, the court placed Ms. Bary in protective custody and she has been placed in a licensed foster care home under the supervision of the Department.
The Secretary of the Department of Children and Family Services and the Governor’s General Counsel will be at today’s court hearing. Please be assured Governor Crist will make a decision that is in the best interests of and ensures the continued health, safety and welfare of Ms. Rifqa Bary.
Thank you again for taking the time to contact Governor Crist.
Sincerely,
Warren Davis
Office of Citizen Services
Here is a copy of my own e-mail to Governor Crist:
To: Governor Charles Crist Charlie.Crist@myflorida.com
Dear Gov. Crist,
Please protect the young girl, Rifqa Bary, who seeks religious asylum in your state. There is every reason to believe her plea for help.
I looked up your website: http://www.flgov.com/gov_biography You look like an honest and caring man. I appreciated reading this, especially:
Governor Crist is committed to ensuring the children of Florida have the resources and opportunities to realize their full potential… He also created the Children and Youth Cabinet and appointed a Chief Child Advocate to streamline the adoption process in Florida. Governor Crist signed the Anti-Murder Act as the first law of the 2007 legislative session in order to ensure the safety of all Floridians. The Governor, the Florida fundraising campaign chair for the United Negro College Fund, introduced a change in the Rules of Executive Clemency that allows automatic restoration of human rights. It looks like Rifqa was guided by a Higher Power when she chose Florida. Please do everything in your power to help her.
The air quality was much clearer last night, and through much of the morning. Around noon, the smoke did build up again, but it is not as bad as the other days.
Some of you asked for updates on Rifqa. She needs all the help we can give her in the next few days – for her court appearance is in on August 21.
Now her high school friends are reaching out to those who are sympathetic to her cause:
“I know that her dad is a threat to her, because I am friends with her and have heard her talk about it. In addition, when she took off and ran, I was one of the last people to talk to her via cell phone and as a result her dad started obsessively calling me and being very harsh and threatening towards me, while demanding that I tell him where she went to.“
America is a wonderful, multicultural experience. And we try to get over our prejudices and see things from other points of view. I know that sounds simplistic. My point is this: in the attempt to be fair and open-minded, some news sources appear to be sympathizing with Rifqa’s father. That is good (being open-minded) – but if a white, Christian girl accused her father of this – or even much less, would she be sent home to the father, based on his word? I don’t think so… There are so many ways to be “politically correct” or incorrect, aren’t there? In such times, to sift it out, it is crucial to protect the one who is most immediately vulnerable, and that would be the life of this young slip of a girl. Once she is safe, other things can be considered. And at least she is temporarily safe, in Florida custody for now. May that protection be extended, for the highest good of all involved.
More:
“…Rifqa Bary is an honor student, a cheerleader – a good girl… Many in her school were shocked to hear that Rifqa, the quintessential good girl, had run away from home; those close to her were not surprised at all.
On several occasions friends of Rifqa would bring her down to the school counselor because of bruises on her legs and her arms, beatings suffered at the hands of her father and brother … The middle school, in a serious dereliction of duty, did not report these beatings to child welfare services. Beatings were random, violent, unprovoked…He would force her to wear the hijab, which she hated. In her discomfort she would slouch down, embarrassed, and her father would haul off and sock her in the face so that she never forgot to sit up straight in her costume…
…It was only when her father was warned by the members of the Muslim community at Noor Islamic Cultural Center that his daughter was an apostate, that Rifqa bolted. She had to run: he vowed to kill her in the time honored Islamic tradition of honor killings. The Noor Islamic Cultural Center has a notorious reputation for extremist ties…”
More can be learnedhere – but I have posted, above, the essentials needed for prayers. I am trying to keep this as non-political as possible. Let’s just save this girl. May the grace of God, Christ, Guru be with her now.
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